Your kids aren’t the most important thing to you, your relationship is!
The man that is sitting across from you, do you recognise him? Does he recognise you?
What have you spoken about lately?
When was the last time you had great sex?
When was the last time you did something together without the kids?
You see, your relationship, this thing you have got going on with your husband where you have lost your passion for each other, this is the relationship that your kids are going to end up in.
Are you ok with that?
Let’s start at the beginning when you first met, you spent time together, you did shit together, you stayed up late talking to each other, you had great sex, you went on adventures together….
Well, you are just ships in the night who take turns in caring for the children.
You don’t even have one anymore, the things you fell in love with, those quirky qualities that you loved about your husband..
They ANNOY the absolute shit out of you now…
The great sex you used to have… Now it is a chore that you tick off your ‘have to do’ list.
The late night convos you used to love, have turned into talking about the kids and the bills.
Boring as fuck. Not connection, passion or excitement!
You do know that the divorce rate is super high right? Look at your husband and ask yourself, do you want to be another statistic?
You have over a 50% chance that you will end up divorced and a higher chance that you will end up sleeping in separate beds for the rest of your life!
Soooo gorgeous what do you choose?
Because at the end of the day, this LOVE thing, is a choice. The passion and excitement is a choice.
You just haven’t been choosing it, or worse you have been waiting for him to create it!
Like its not your fault… wrong!
It has always blown me away that people don’t have relationship goals??
We set body goals, financial goals, holiday goals, yet…
Two people can come together, not work on their relationship, not be working towards something greater together and have a happy lasting relationship…
Nope can’t happen!
Well this is why I feel so many relationship fail.
Not to mention throwing a few small humans in there that take up a lot of your time, energy and sleep, total recipe for disaster!
This is why your relationship with your husband NEEDS to be PRIORITISED before your kids!
What are your thoughts on this?
I was going to write more, buuuttt I want to hear from you! What do you think?