THE UNSELFISHNESS OF PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST

THE UNSELFISHNESS OF PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST

Without the number 1 reason that mothers – women in general actually – dont get results IS –

They dont put themselves first.

I know that feeling of having a million things to do and only a handful of hours in which to do them… I know what its like to feel like you need to be all things to all people –

Your kids…

Your boss…

Your hubby…

Your friends…

EVERYONE wants a piece of you.

Well, thats good, its means you’re a worthwhile human being and have good shit to offer!

The problem is that all too often it comes from a place where you think that YOUR needs aren’t as important as the needs of others.

How many times have you hustled to get a project at work delivered, or even just to drop kid #1 at swimming and kid #2 at ballet and then quickly get some shopping done and all the while –

Not eating because you had to rush out the house, even though you fed the kids well…

Not doing your exercise because after said work or said sports drop offs, you “have no time”…

Not buying yourself something because you dont “need” it and because you could spend that money on something for the kids…

I used to live like this all the time, so I know how big a trap it is. You see, you tell yourself that its “what you have to do”, but secretly… inside…

You feel trapped and eventually end up resenting the very people you are trying so hard to love and please.

Have you ever found yourself angry or short tempered with your kids or hubby and after you have had a melt down and 5 minutes to yourself you realise that it wasn’t their fault?

Well skip the melt down and just take time for yourself first!

If you aren’t ready to do this for yourself, remember THIS –

Your kids become you.

They will ABSORB your behaviours, whether you like it or not…

Would you happily watch them work, work, work… give, give, give… without giving to themselves?

Hmmm?

I didn’t think so…

Putting yourself first – REGULARLY – is actually the deepest form of giving to those around you… Because “your cup runneth over” and fills the cups of your kids and your hubby and your friends more easily.

And if you dont fill your own cup – DANGER! Because you are going to want someone else to fill it for you… And no one likes neediness!

Oh, and one more thing –

Sure you could start small, go have a coffee alone or whatever… but in my experience, there is usually something going on inside you that wants out…

A voice that is speaking to you and telling you to…. hmmm… travel?

Buy clothes?

Take a tantra course?

Go away just you and hubby?

Run a marathon?

I dont know what it is for you, but you do… if youre willing to hear it.

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