Now if you asked these ladies what made the difference Im pretty damn sure they would tell you the truth:
They showed up daily.
And did the hustle.
Shit, they didn’t even have to eat anything they didn’t like or give up fruit or carbs or anything like that!
Just daily committed action.
I think deep down you know this is true lovely. So why haven’t you committed? Why haven’t you gone all in?
I was speaking to one of my VIP clients recently and really breaking down her mindset barriers (most of what my VIP clients and I talk about is around mindset, since, it gets the MAJOR shifts). She is already a well accomplished woman who runs her own business and has kept it up despite having a baby not so long ago.
We had already broken through the block she had around restriction - where she believed that diets had to be restrictive to lose weight (which is a total fucking myth by the way) and were on our way through a pretty fucking deep dive into her resistance and avoidance.
After some long pauses and a few strained moments where I knew something big was about to come through, she said to me -
“Stacey, I just don’t know if it really makes any difference if I lose all the weight. I mean, who really cares?”
Have you ever felt like that? That you looking and feeling EXACTLY as you want is not important and that the world will carry on just fine without you?
If not, awesome! You are already on your way to becoming a skinny bitch with me. But if you have felt this way before then you now know why you have never locked in your hot as fuck body.
You have to know that you are worth it, before you can have it.
You have to know that YOU matter.
Isn’t that why you have been avoiding the mirror and not REALLY looking at yourself for… well, how long is it now?
Because you haven’t yet decided you’re worth it, that you deserve it or that you can even get there - and therefore you haven’t committed to doing it.
I understand too, since the voices in your head seem so convincing. They whisper to you all day that you wont get there.
That its not for you, sure other women can achieve it, but thats because they are stronger or have something that you don’t (those damn skinny bitches) or that they just have better genes, more time, more will power (not a real thing) or an easier life.
For the second time since we started this little chit chat gorgeous, I want you to stop reading until you get clear on something for me.
For this to continue, for you and me to have a chance of working together, I want - NO NEED - you to agree on something:
That you’re WORTH it.
That you have all you need inside to be able to eat, move and think like a skinny bitch (which I will explain more about in a moment).
That it ABSOLUTELY fucking matters whether or not you have the body, energy and attitude that you crave.
And that this time, THIS TIME, is the time that you are finally going to commit to getting the result.
You will do what it takes.
ALL it takes.
Until it takes.
Can you do this for me beautiful? Can you commit to yourself right now? Coz if you can - then you are gonna LOVE what comes next!